{"id":1122,"date":"2012-08-24T17:17:29","date_gmt":"2012-08-24T21:17:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gabrielsnyder.com\/notes\/?p=1122"},"modified":"2012-08-24T17:17:29","modified_gmt":"2012-08-24T21:17:29","slug":"sex-lies-and-park-slope","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/gabrielsnyder.com\/notes\/2012\/08\/24\/sex-lies-and-park-slope\/","title":{"rendered":"Sex, lies, and Park Slope"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You may have read <a href=\"http:\/\/www.theawl.com\/2012\/07\/the-40-year-old-reversion\">Amy Sohn&#8217;s piece in The Awl last month<\/a> about Park Slope&#8217;s sexynaughty parents.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>When &#8220;Girls&#8221; hit this spring, I was shocked by how true the show rang to my life &#8212; not my old life as a post-collegiate single girl but my new one, as a married, monogamous, home-owning mother. My generation of moms isn&#8217;t getting shocking HPV news (we&#8217;re so old we&#8217;ve cleared it), or having anal sex with near-strangers, or smoking crack in Bushwick. But we&#8217;re masturbating excessively, cheating on good people, doing coke in newly price-inflated townhouses, and sexting compulsively &#8212; though rarely with our partners. Our children now school-aged, our marriages entering their second decade, we are avoiding the big questions &#8212; Should I quit my job? Have another child? Divorce? &#8212; by behaving like a bunch of crazy twentysomething hipsters. Call us the Regressives.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/gothamist.com\/2012\/08\/24\/an_interview_with_park_slope_author.php\">Jake Dobkin interviewed Sohn<\/a> about the piece and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/ASIN\/B0061Q4ABC\/ref=nosim\/0sil8\">her new book<\/a> for Gothamist. Well, he attempted to anyway.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Can I suggest that maybe you&#8217;re just hanging out with the wrong group of people? I mean, if everyone around you is throwing back Xanax and raw-dogging it just to FEEL SOMETHING and then having unplanned kids because they&#8217;re too stupid to use birth control, is it possible it&#8217;s not Park Slope&#8217;s fault, and rather, it might be hanging around with really immature people?<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>(via <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/djacobs\">@djacobs<\/a>)<\/p>\n<p> <strong>Tags:<\/strong> <a href=\"http:\/\/kottke.org\/tag\/Amy%20Sohn\">Amy Sohn<\/a>\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 <a href=\"http:\/\/kottke.org\/tag\/books\">books<\/a>\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 <a href=\"http:\/\/kottke.org\/tag\/interviews\">interviews<\/a>\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 <a href=\"http:\/\/kottke.org\/tag\/Jake%20Dobkin\">Jake Dobkin<\/a>\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 <a href=\"http:\/\/kottke.org\/tag\/NYC\">NYC<\/a><\/p>\n<p>via kottke.org <a href=\"http:\/\/kottke.org\/12\/08\/sex-lies-and-park-slope\">http:\/\/kottke.org\/12\/08\/sex-lies-and-park-slope<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You may have read Amy Sohn&#8217;s piece in The Awl last month about Park Slope&#8217;s sexynaughty parents. When &#8220;Girls&#8221; hit this spring, I was shocked by how true the show rang to my life &#8212; not my old life as a post-collegiate single girl but my new one, as a married, monogamous, home-owning mother. My &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"http:\/\/gabrielsnyder.com\/notes\/2012\/08\/24\/sex-lies-and-park-slope\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Sex, lies, and Park Slope&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[7],"tags":[6,472,326],"class_list":["post-1122","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-google-reader","tag-ifttt","tag-jason-kottke","tag-kottke-org"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p2skW4-i6","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/gabrielsnyder.com\/notes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1122","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/gabrielsnyder.com\/notes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/gabrielsnyder.com\/notes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/gabrielsnyder.com\/notes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/gabrielsnyder.com\/notes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1122"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/gabrielsnyder.com\/notes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1122\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/gabrielsnyder.com\/notes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1122"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/gabrielsnyder.com\/notes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1122"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/gabrielsnyder.com\/notes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1122"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}